Finding Support in Special Programs

Nathan’s mom, Pattie, first learned about the YMCA’s special programs through their IRIS caseworker, Matt Lovell. IRIS—short for Include, Respect, I Self-Direct—is a Wisconsin Medicaid program that empowers adults with disabilities to choose the services and supports that best fit their needs.

At the time, Pattie had been preparing to build a program of her own for Nathan and his graduating classmates—disappointed by the limited opportunities available for young adults with disabilities after age 21. But after discovering what the Y had to offer, she realized she didn’t have to.

Nathan is now part of Service Without Boundaries—a community service-based day program that supports adults with disabilities through learning activities, social development, physical activity, and volunteer work both at the Y and out in the community.

What stood out most to Pattie was the staff. “Every staff member has such a strong desire to support our adults. I love that staff are willing to make modifications to suit Nathan, including incorporating the same strategies we use at home,” she said. “I couldn’t ask for a more personal approach!”

Since joining the program, Nathan has made noticeable improvements in his behavior—especially around eating. For most of his life, he had been a rigid, fussy eater with an extremely limited diet. School staff tried for years to encourage new foods, but the best result was an occasional “micro” bite.

But now, something has shifted. While still just small nibbles, Nathan is trying more new foods—and doing it without any prompting. He even brings his plate to his mom and proudly reports, “I tried it!”

That progress has even been noticed outside the program. Nathan and his family recently started attending a new church, and it’s been a joy to see him willingly try the food offered—something that wouldn’t have been possible before

For Pattie, the Y has been more than a resource—it’s been a life-changing support system their family “It’s everything I could’ve wanted for Nathan… and more!”