Growing Up at the Y

When David Baxter’s daughter and son-in-law were expecting their first child, they faced the rising cost of childcare. Together, the family made a plan: David would retire early, and he and his wife would move in with them so they could care for their granddaughter during the workday.

When Isla turned two, David began bringing her to the YMCA. They started with tumbling classes, but those first days weren’t easy. “She was so shy,” David recalled. “I’d walk the track above while she was in class. She would stand in the corner, and once she could see me walking by, she’d feel comfortable enough to join in.”

Today, that shy little girl is thriving. Now eight, Isla has been joined by her younger sisters, Palmer and Lettie, who have each found their own place in YMCA programs. The newest granddaughter, Brenna, will soon be joining the fun as well.

Along the way, David has become just as familiar around the Y as the kids. “The staff is wonderful,” he said with a smile. “The grandkids call me ‘Lumpy,’ and now the staff calls me Lumpy too.”

Over the years, David has watched his granddaughters grow more confident through their experiences at the YMCA. Seeing that growth has been the greatest reward.

“They all started out on the shy side,” David said. “The interaction with other kids has really opened them up. They’re learning social skills, communication, and confidence.”

He especially remembers watching Palmer blossom in First Friends class. “Becky was so patient with her,” he said. “Seeing Palmer open up—not only to the other kids, but to other adults—was really special.”

“Lumpy has become a staple in the children’s department,” said Becky. “We’ve watched him encourage each of his granddaughters through everything from separation anxiety to dance recitals. He’s always there cheering them on.”

As a grandparent caring for four young children each day, David also appreciates the encouragement he receives from YMCA staff. “If they see me struggling with one of them, they’re always willing to help,” he said. “Everybody here is so supportive.”

For David, the YMCA has become more than a place to spend the day. It’s a place where his granddaughters have built confidence, friendships, and independence, while he has found encouragement from staff who have supported their family every step of the way.