Category: Healthy Minds

Winter Mental Well-being

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Managing Seasonal Blues and Holiday Stress

Wisconsin winters bring beauty, outdoor fun, and cozy moments—but shorter days and colder temps can affect our mood and energy. Holidays can add extra stress, too. Some people may even experience Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), a type of seasonal depression that can impact mood, energy, motivation, sleep, and appetite.

You’re not alone—and there are simple, effective strategies to help you stay grounded, supported, and hopeful this season. This blog shares practical tips around Light, Mindset, Connection, and Rest to improve your mental health this winter.

Light: Physical, Spiritual and Emotional

During the winter, many people notice an energy drop simply because there’s less sunlight and the colder temps cause us to spend more time indoors. We also need Vitamin D to regulate serotonin levels and help our brain with emotional processing. When we decrease our level of sunlight, we can also experience a drop in Vitamin D levels so it is good to have your Vitamin D levels checked and supplement if needed.

Ways to Bring in More Light During the Winter:

  • Get outside daily, even briefly. Morning light is especially helpful. So bundle up and step outside!
  • Keep blinds open and maximize natural light in your home or workspace.
  • Try a light therapy lamp, especially if you notice seasonal mood shifts. Many local libraries have these lamps available to check out to try. When purchasing, make sure the light is at least 10,000 Lux and use it first thing in the morning for about 30 minutes for best results.
  • Look for moments of emotional brightness—a warm drink, a favorite song, a few minutes of stillness. Write down one thing that brings you joy and one thing you are thankful for each day. 
  • Remember why you celebrate specific holidays and take time to honor loved ones.
  • Pray to lighten your burdens. We were not meant to carry the weight of all our stressors on our own and Jesus wants us to lay them down and walk with Him so we can find rest. (Matthew 11:29-30)

Mindset: Changing Expectations and Thoughts

Winter and the holidays often bring pressure to “do it all”—decorate perfectly, buy the right gifts, host the gathering, stay cheerful. That pressure can be overwhelming.

Instead, try giving yourself permission for simplicity. Being fully present with people and letting them know you care is what matters most. Allow yourself to shorten your gift list, especially for kids, if it seems like too much. Communicate clearly to those around you that you need to simplify holiday traditions this year in order to have more joy. If you are grieving, give yourself grace and communicate your need to do things a bit differently this year.

Consider:

  • Choosing a few meaningful traditions and letting go of the rest.
  • Replacing perfection with being fully present in the moment.
  • Practicing gratitude in small, daily doses- this releases chemicals that boost our mood.
  • Saying “no” when your schedule or capacity is full.
  • Saying more positive words- and letting your emotions follow rather than the opposite.
  • Picking a scripture to hang up and repeat daily to focus on truth.

Connection: Intentional and Meaningful

Social isolation impacts our physical and mental health. In the winter we need to be intentional about reaching out and finding meaningful ways to connect.

The first thing is to be open with someone you trust about the stress you are experiencing during winter and/or the holiday season. Tell someone when you are overwhelmed and ask for help. This sounds simple but many people believe they just have to “get through” the holidays and don’t express their feelings.

If you have difficulty on long winter days, tell someone and make plans to meet a friend or invite them over for a warm drink. Utilize the many open spaces at our YMCA locations to play a game with a friend or chat after a class so you can increase your social time during the winter months.

Rest: Protect Sleep and Recharge

Changes in daylight can disrupt sleep cycles, and holiday stress can make it harder to wind down. Keeping a journal next to your bed to write down stressors if they pop up in your mind and to write 3-5 things you are thankful for before going to sleep.

Quality sleep is one of the best gifts you can give yourself.

Simple ways to protect your rest:

  • Keep a consistent sleep and wake time.
  • Set limits on evening screen time.
  • Build a simple bedtime routine: warm shower, reading, calming music, gratitude.
  • Reduce sugar and caffeine to help your body better regulate.

You never have to navigate winter or the holiday season alone. Contact Mel Kistner, our Healthy Minds program director at [email protected] if you want to meet 1:1 to talk or need help navigating mental health resources.

Want to know more about changing thoughts and false beliefs that affect your mood?

Attend our Healthy Minds workshop in January called: “New Year, New Thoughts Mindset Workshop”
Learn More Here

When to Reach Out for Extra Help:

If your mood feels unmanageable, you’re withdrawing from others, your feelings of depression are worsening, or if daily tasks feel too heavy, please know that help is available. If you are expereincing symptoms of SAD, please get evaluated by a professional.

You can find support through:

  • Local mental health providers
  • Your primary care professional or Hospital
  • Crisis lines and text services including 988- text or call 24/7 for mental health support.

Teaming Up for Family Health

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October is Family Health Month, and the Y is dedicated to supporting all families as they work to create healthier lifestyles for themselves and their loved ones. Family health and wellness is a group effort. When everyone works together, healthy habits become easier and more fun. Learn how to improve your family’s health as a team using these approaches.

Start the Day with Movement

A few minutes of morning physical activity can set a positive tone for the rest of your day. A walk around the block, family stretch session or a morning dance party are all simple examples you can easily do at home.

Make Mealtime a Family Activity

Choose one or two days to cook as a family. Assigning roles to each family member makes it a true team effort, and mealtime becomes a great opportunity to teach about nutrition and cooking skills. Sitting down to share the meal strengthens bonds and creates daily structure. Explore recipes and nutrition tips on our blog.

Practice Gratitude Together

Take a moment each week to practice gratitude as a family – whether it’s a moment on-the-go or set aside as dedicated time together. Have each family member share one thing they were grateful for that day or week. Consider creating a gratitude jar, board or journal to display these reflections. That way, you and your family can visualize their thankful thoughts. Visit this link for more ideas on how to express gratitude as a family.

Stay Active or Get Creative Together

Set aside one day each week for a fun family activity – physical or creative. Spending time as a family moving or creating supports both physical and mental wellbeing.

Here are a few ideas at the Y:

  • Check out the Nex Playground Gaming System (available only at the YMCA at Pabst Farms)
  • Play basketball in the gym
  • Enjoy a Family Swim at the YMCA at Pabst Farms
  • Volunteer with your child’s sports team

Together Time

Relationships are the heart of a healthy family. Prioritize quality time together – whether that’s catching up over dinner, playing a board game or chatting about your day while out for a family stroll. These shared moments are what keep your relationship strong.

Be sure to check out our Fall Fest and Breakfast with Santa events that encourage together time and family bonding!

Create a Shared Bedtime Routine

Establishing a shared routine or schedule before bed creates a calm environment for relaxation and sleep. Try incorporating these simple tips into your family’s nighttime regimen to promote a restful night for everyone.

By incorporating movement, mealtime togetherness, creativity, gratitude, and restful routines, your family can build healthy habits that last a lifetime.

Take Care of Your Mental Health

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May is Mental Health Awareness Month

Mental health is how we think, feel and act. At the Y, we recognize that we all have mental health, and mental health is an important part of our overall health and social-emotional well-being.

Everyone can play a role in mental health community care. In honor of Mental Health Awareness Month, the Y encourages you to identify simple ways you can care for yourself and others, such as:

  • Get regular exercise. Just 30 minutes of walking every day can boost your mood and improve your health. Small amounts of movement add up, so don’t be discouraged if you can’t do it all at once. Consider joining a group exercise class. Moving together with others not only keeps you motivated—it also helps you build connections, reduce stress, and feel supported. Exercise also supports the healthy balance of brain chemicals which is important to maintain a stable mood.
  • Eat healthy, regular meals and stay hydrated. A balanced diet and plenty of water can improve your energy and focus throughout the day. Pay attention to your intake of caffeine, sugars, processed foods and alcohol and how they affect your mood and well-being.
  • Make sleep a priority. Stick to a schedule, and make sure you’re getting enough sleep. Blue light from devices and screens can make it harder to fall asleep, so reduce blue light exposure from your phone or computer before bedtime. Sleep can be an essential part of brain function so make rest a priority.
  • Try a relaxing activity. Try a yoga or BodyBalance class at the Y to stretch, breathe, and reset. You can also build in time for other calming activities you enjoy, like reading, listening to music, spending time in nature, or engaging in low-stress or creative hobbies. Practice deep breathing daily.
  • Take time to Reflect. Reflection is a way to notice how life is impacting us and allows us to respond intentionally rather than react in ways that may be less effective. Write down your thoughts and feelings to release and reflect. Writing down a positive thought or a Bible verse to have ready when you feel stressed or experience a trigger can be helpful for many individuals.
  • Stay connected. Reach out to friends or family members who can provide emotional support and practical help. Research shows that social connections impact our health and mental well-being so be intentional about connecting with others and checking in on neighbors and friends.
  • Notice Signs and Symptoms. Fatigue, changes in regular behavior, sadness, hopelessness, low frustration tolerance, frequent negative thoughts, changes in mood, withdrawing and not feeling like yourself can be a few of the signs and symptoms an individual may have when experiencing a mental health challenge. Sometimes they are brought on by vitamin deficiencies, chemical imbalances or health issues so it’s good to get levels checked and get support when signs or symptoms occur.
  • Reach out for help when needed. Contact a trusted friend, family member, neighbor, pastor or coworker and tell them about any signs or symptoms you may be experiencing. Call 988 if you or anyone you know is facing mental health or substance abuse challenges to talk to a caring counselor. Reach out to a mental health or medical professional if you need to be evaluated.

This Mental Health Awareness Month, and all year long, the Y is here for you-offering a supportive community and resources to help you care for your whole self: spirit, mind and body. There is always hope. You are not alone.

A Resource for Reflection

Reflection is a way to slow down and notice how life is impacting us so we can respond intentionally rather than just react. When we recognize what’s going on with our spirit, body, thoughts and emotions we can release and reset. Use this guide to reflect on how you are doing spiritually, physically and emotionally this week.
Download the Daily Reflection Sheet

The Healthy Minds Program at the Y

Through workshops focused on topics like stress management, parenting skills, expressive arts, and mental health education, Healthy Minds offers opportunities for learning and connection. A goal of the program is to integrate resiliency skills into all YMCA programs, ensuring they become part of the Y’s fabric. Mel Kistner, our Healthy Minds Program Director, is working to develop a strong referral network so individuals can get the support they need when facing mental health challenges. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, have questions, or just need to talk, Mel is here to listen and support you.

Contact her at [email protected]

New Healthy Minds Program to Support Mental Wellness

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Mental well-being is just as important as physical health, yet many struggle to find the right support. That’s why we are launching Healthy Minds, a new initiative dedicated to helping individuals build resilience, develop life-readiness skills, and navigate life’s challenges with confidence.

“At the Y, we are committed to supporting the whole person—spirit, mind, and body,” said Jess Mieling, Branch Executive Director at Pabst Farms. “Mental health is essential to overall well-being, and Healthy Minds will provide valuable tools and connections to help our community thrive.”

In January, the YMCA welcomed Mel Kistner as the Healthy Minds Program Director. Kistner brings 12 years of experience as a clinical counselor and is a certified Christian Life Coach and Master Mental Health Coach “I’m excited to help educate, connect, and equip our members with the tools they need for mental and emotional well-being,” says Mel. “My goal is to shape Healthy Minds into a program that helps people better understand mental health, build meaningful connections, and create lasting positive habits.”

Through workshops focused on topics like stress management, parenting skills, expressive arts, and mental health education, Healthy Minds offers opportunities for learning and connection. A goal of the program is to integrate resiliency skills into all YMCA programs, ensuring they become part of the Y’s fabric. Mel is also working to develop a strong referral network so individuals can get the support they need when facing mental health challenges. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, have questions, or just need to talk, Mel is here to listen and support you.

We invite you to be part of this movement.

Stay tuned for upcoming Healthy Minds workshops, events, and parent trainings. To learn more, suggest topics, or seek support, contact Mel Kistner at [email protected]. 
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