A Circle of Support

For the past 15 years, the YMCA has been woven into Kristin Bencivenga’s life—supporting her through motherhood, career changes, and most recently, a cancer diagnosis.

When Kristin and her family moved to Oconomowoc with their 18-month-old daughter, Mia, one of their first steps was joining the Y. What started with swim lessons and group fitness classes quickly became something much more. “It was our safe place. Our happy place,” she said. “And really, our lifeline.” Inside those walls, they found lasting friendships and a sense of belonging.

Mia later attended Sunshine School, and when Kristin’s sons, Asher and Griffin, came along, the Y was the obvious choice for childcare. As Kristin transitioned back to work, she had peace of mind knowing her boys were surrounded by familiar, caring faces.

Over the years, all three children played nearly every sport at the Y, attended camps, and now, as teens, enjoy lifting weights and shooting hoops. Kristin’s husband, Jim, coached countless teams, and Kristin’s mom—who moved in a few years ago—found connection through group fitness classes.

In March 2024, Kristin was on the planning committee for the Y’s Annual Campaign Auction & Dinner. While getting ready for the event, she found a lump in her breast. A few weeks later, she was diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer.

And once again, the Y became her lifeline.

Bruce Osborn called often to check in and pray. Instructors and staff brought meals, headscarves, and unwavering encouragement. “I don’t know how people do cancer without a village—and the Y is very much a part of that village for me,” Kristin said.

During treatment, she missed coming to the Y—but the moment she was able, she returned. “I needed a pick-me-up. To see familiar faces, to be reminded that I could still do it—and that I was still me outside of cancer.”

Now finished with chemo, surgery, and radiation, Kristin is focused on healing. Her next goal is to rebuild strength with the help of a trainer at the Y—surrounded by the people who’ve walked with her through it all.

From her early days as a new mom to the hardest days of her life, Kristin says: “We are forever grateful for everything the Y has done for our family and for this entire community. It’s not just where you go to work out. It’s where you go to belong.”